Saturday, June 15, 2013

Horizon Expanding in the Internet Age



Looking for something to do? Searching for like-minded people to with whom to connect? Then look no further than Meetup.com, a website that allows you to convene with all kinds of people with similar interests. Or if you’re brave enough, weird enough, or desperate enough you can meet people with freakishly dissimilar interests too.

The process is quite easy. Visit the site, plug in your location, choose a few activities or interests, and BAM! Soon your email inbox will be flooded with get-together-options that will keep you busier than an IRS employee at a Tea Party Convention. Of course, you have to get up off the couch and actually GO to the events. And that’s where things might get a little dicey because, for me at least, it means driving in LA (Ugh!), meeting new people (Yikes!), and possibly missing a ballgame or a favorite TV show. (Waaaa!)

There are hundreds of groups from which to choose. Categories include Photography, Literature, Fitness, Religion, Music, Movies, Pets, Socializing and many more. Much to my sister Jenny’s disbelief, I have been to numerous Meetup events. I’ve been hiking in Griffith Park. I have two writing groups that I often visit. I’ve been to dinners and happy hours. I went to a Thanksgiving meal.  I visited (briefly) a wine-tasting event where I was the youngest person in the room. I went bowling where I got beat by a cute Wisconsin transplant named Jerilyn who I’d meet at two previous happy hour events.

Many of the groups are based on a specific activity like hiking or drinking alcohol. I haven’t discovered a group that combines both of these pastimes, but there is one that mixes drinking and reading. Kind of like a BYOB Book Club. However, some others cater to extremely specific demographics. Here are a few:

·         The Lez Hang Out Group (Long Beach, 549 members)  -- I believe Rosie O’Donnell and Ellen Degeneres founded this group.
·        The UFO and Paranormal Research Society (Studio City, 688 members)  -- Join and get a free “ET Phone home” T-Shirt.
·        Canadians in Orange County (Santa Ana, 385 members) – Get together to watch the Bluejays and drink Labatts in Balboa.
·        Burbank Single Baby Boomers (Burbank, 46 members) – Let’s reminisce about the 50s!
·        Just Graduated from College and Moved to LA (Santa Monica, 696 members) – Bring your textbooks, we’ll have a bonfire!
·        Los Angeles Responsible Pit Bull Owners (Van Nuys, 558 members). Dog groups are very popular. Thankfully, there aren’t any cat groups.
·        VeJEWtarian (Tarzana, 62 members). Because being a vegetarian started in the book of Genesis.

 Meanwhile, other groups appeal to a wide swath of folks (in my area there are 230 groups with over 1,000 members):
·        Los Angeles Hiking Group (LA, 11,701 members)
·        Drinking with Strangers (Santa Monica, 5,708 members)
·        Los Angeles Smart Singles (LA, 2,872 members)
·        I’m a Cool Nerd (LA, 2,499 members)
·        So Cal Flash Mobbers (LA, 2,100 members)

But not all the groups appeal to everybody (or to me):
·        Libros de Traje -- Spanish Book Club (Gardena, 48 members) “Libros de Traje” es un círculo de libros para los amos y novicios de la lengua española. Huh?
·         H Socials All over Southern California (Santa Ana, 950 members) This is a social site for people with Herpes & HPV. I don’t think I even want to drive through Santa Ana anymore.
·        Wild about Mushrooms (Los Angeles, 614 members). Join us for a wild mushroom hunt as we go look for edible and medicinal mushrooms here in our backyard or in faraway places. I don’t always eat mushrooms, but when I do, I dig for my own!
·        Los Angeles Hacker News (LA, 968 members) -- A group for readers of hackernews.com, or just those interested in hacking, software and entrepreneurship. Um, really?
·        OC Christian Pregnancy Group (Anaheim, 21 members). Nuff said.
·        Los Angeles Yankee Fans (Redondo Beach, 8 members). The eight most confused people in the South Bay.

And other groups make me shake my head:
·        Loving More (Polyamory – Santa Monica, 847 members) Ok, so I had to look this one up. Polyamory is the practice of loving more than one person. Not to be confused with Polygamy because I guess you don’t have to get married. There are nine Polyamory groups. Orange County even has a Polyamory with Integrity group. How ‘bout that for an oxymoron?
·        The Galactic Federation of Light (Los Angeles, 224 members) This group is formed to help inform others about taking the mystery out of the growing ET presence and ever increasing UFO’s, knowing that if they were meant to cause any harm, they would have done so long ago. Well, maybe the ETs are just waiting for the right moment.
·        Los Angeles Urban Chicken Enthusiasts (LA, 1,279 members). This group is intended to create a community for people who either have chickens or are thinking seriously about getting chickens. I don’t think they meet up at Chik-Fil-A.
·        Los Angeles Area Pagans and Witches Group (LA, 935 members). “I’ll get you my pretty and your little dog too!”

Groups that won’t be mingling:
·        Atheist United Southbay (Torrance, 163 members) and the I Love JC Christian Singles (Los Angeles, 382 members).
·        Celebrate Recovery (South Pasadena, 12 members) and Santa Monica Beer Lovers (Santa Monica, 178 members).
·        Ready for Hilary (Beverly Hills, 13 members) and the San Fernando Valley Young Republicans (Northridge, 31 members).
·        The South Bay 2nd Amendment Gun Group (Redondo Beach, 13 members) and the Mom’s Demand Action for Gun Sense in America Group (Irvine, 2 members).

I have a lot more time to devote to my Meetup groups now that summer vacation is here. Plus I’m just about caught up on Downton Abbey and my favorite baseball teams stinks. I’m debating whether to start with the Chicken Enthusiasts or the UFO guys. Or maybe I should start my own group:

·        Single Southpaw Teachers of Torrance? Hmm. Possibly too narrow.

I could try to track down Jerilyn. I believe she relocated to Santa Monica. But that’s way too far to drive. I guess sitting on the couch isn’t so bad.

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